Yes,
I know, “Handmaiden” sounds sexist. However I know of no better or more poetic
way of explaining myself and just for once hope you have enough respect for
free speech to just bear with it....why am I wasting time making this point?
Perhaps I’d better get on with it.
A
few days ago my wife went out for a walk along a country lane and on returning
told me how she had come across a lady walking a dog who made a big production
out of standing to one side, as far into the bushes as possible and glowering
at my better-half until she, smilingly, had gone on her way. This sort of thing
doesn’t happen to us too often, thank goodness, but it does so occasionally and
makes for a distressing or in the case of my wife’s walk, disappointing
experience. Some time before that, we went into a cafe-bar in which my good
lady was asked to wear a mask. “I’m exempt.” she cheerfully replied. At that
point she was asked to produce a lanyard evidencing a disability. We both
pointed out that this isn’t required in law and that refusal of service could
constitute discrimination under the Equalities Act, electing, since we now felt
uncomfortable, to leave the premises. We were both told quite aggressively to
leave a pub after we declined the then voluntary “track and trace” system and
once when returning from overseas, I self isolated for 14 days which at that
time was not required at all, but this didn’t stop an ill- informed publican
from asking whether I was supposed to be in quarantine and when I objected to
being asked this pretty rude question, telling me to “F**k off out of my pub!”
There
are of course, too many stories like this, of bus drivers throwing kids off the
bus, shoppers glaring at people who are not wearing a mask, or shopkeepers
demanding proof of facemask exemption. It goes further than this with internet
trolls on all sorts of platforms, even those resisting this madness, using
bullying tactics to shout down “anti-vaxxers” (What the hell is an Anti-vaxxer and why is it
spelt with two X’s?) and “conspiracy theorists.” Fortunately, the common
decency of humanity generally prevails and these sorts of incidents are
relatively uncommon, but for them to have happened to me and mine on the four
occasions I’ve listed above is four times too many.
And
this brings me to my point. The United States Holocaust Memorial Museum website
offers this insight:
“Essential to the intimidating
effects of the terror was the willingness of many German citizens (whether out
of conviction, greed, envy, or vengeance) to denounce their fellow citizens,
Jewish and non-Jewish, to the police. The Gestapo could not have exercised such
control over German society without the benefit of this steady stream of
denunciations, many of which were entirely unfounded.”
https://encyclopedia.ushmm.org/content/en/article/nazi-terror-begins
The
sad truth is, that, far from even believing they are doing any good, the sort
of people who feel obliged to react in this way are quite simply,
life-frustrated, insecure, insignificant, often unpleasant bullies lacking the
courage to do anything about their own unhappy lives, filled with resentment
toward others, who suddenly find themselves in a position to legitimately, as
they see it, denounce their fellow citizens. Imagine the long-term unemployed
man, desperate for a job, who applies to become a “Covid-Marshal.” I don’t know
what the qualifications are for this but suppose that having two arms, two legs
and a head and being able to breathe and walk pretty much does it. Utterly
without a place in the world yesterday, today he is empowered to yell at some
poor sap, probably suitably wimpy or pathetic-looking, “HOY! YOU! SOCIAL
DISTANCING!” grinning inwardly as the target slinks meekly off, or to ask
someone where they think they are going, revelling in the obvious intimidation
he is causing. We are now surrounded by people who feel themselves entitled,
whether at work or leisure, to treat other people with disrespect, suspicion,
derision or outright hatred. Make no mistake, these sorts of people are, quite
frankly, dangerous and despicable. They will take every opportunity to snitch
on you, engineer a confrontation they think they can win, and the only way to
take the wind out of their sails is to stand up to them. Explain, calmly and
politely, that you do not have to provide evidence of face-mask exemption, remember that
Covid-Marshals are not police officers and do not have the power to detain
you, and above all that you are entitled
to respect. People like this have no ability in normal life except to behave
unpleasantly but in these circumstances, they actually have the ability to deny
service to you, harass or intimidate you, ask impertinent questions of you or
attempt to shower you with disapproval. We all know people like this. The only
difference is that the “pandemic” now legitimises their disgusting behaviour.
I
would never try to encourage anyone to behave in an antisocial manner. But
quite honestly, if you’re out walking and someone looks at you in a funny way,
I wonder what would happen if you smiled at them and said, “Are you all right?”